Archive for November, 2007

Happy Thanksgiving and Thank you for reading my ponderings

Wednesday, November 21st, 2007

This time of year gives me the opportunity to thank all those who have been reading my blog.

I realize I am not very regular with my postings, but I have enjoyed using this venue to express some ideas that come up. Naturally, not all my ideas get shared because in the reality I live in there are many things competing for my time. Perhaps the plus side is that I am not overwelming your inbox.

I wish you a meaningful day with loved ones.

May all that is good, abundant, and joyful be acknowledged and lived by you today and every day of the year!

With love, Dianne Eppler Adams

Human awareness recently increased 49 times?

Wednesday, November 21st, 2007

If you knew that humanity’s conscousness had increased 49 times in the last four years, would you be worried about the future of humanity? That’s not possible you say? What if I told you that in the last four years our awareness of the breadth of our solar system had increased more than 49 times? (more…)

What good is competition?

Wednesday, November 14th, 2007

“If we are all one, then which approach serves us better, ultimately, competition or collaboration?” — W. Scott Erickson

When I came across this quote from my friend Scott, it took me no time at all to answer it – collarboration, of course. In the form of a question, it is a great opportunity for deeper consideration.

In many parts of our contemporary lives, competition rules – business, sports, and sadly even in relationships. However, just exactly what good is competition anyway?

I believe that much of the competition we take for granted is actually born of the false belief that we need to be better, smarter, stronger or richer that others in order to be important, valued and praised. Most of competition actually works to separate us from others so we can stand above or lord over others.

Those who reach that pinacle of “the best” often find it lonely and, of course, difficult to remain at the top as others naturally challenge that position to reach there themselves.

Collaberation, on the other hand, offers the opportunity to excell in the company of colleagues, to call on the best of others to join your best and create something better than any one alone could achieve. One thing is needed, however, and that is to let go of the need for the spotlight to fall on only you. The ability to enjoy everyone succeeding is found in knowing through the eyes of oneness that everyone’s success is yours too.

So what good is competition? I believe the value of competition is found when you are competing with yourself. Have you done something better today than you did yesterday? Are you sharpening your skills or producing a better product or service? Then you are using competition in the best possible way – to grow and achieve.

Scorpio New Moon – Opportunity for Anger Management and Resolution

Friday, November 9th, 2007

With Mars going retrograde Nov 15 for the next two and a half months, the topic of anger begged to be the main topic this month. The “Red” planet, Mars, rules over ambition and action as well as conflict and aggression so there is a good news/bad news aspect to how it works.

In retrograde motion, we can expect less forward momentum or vitality, unexpected obstacles and resistance to our moves, unclear direction and goals, and actions having unintended outcomes or none at all. Frustration and anger are likely responses to such challenges.

Also, when Mars is retrograde we have an opportunity to revisit key moments of personal history when we felt blocked and helpless. Since Mars is reversing in Cancer and returning to Gemini, the issues revisited are likely to involve family and siblings particularly. Did your older brother push you around? Is your sister always emphasizing your failures? Or perhaps Dad dissuaded you from becoming who you wanted to be.

From mid-November to the end of January is your opportunity to both release the anger of the past and find new ways to deal with anger-causing events that might come up.

Either kind of anger is unhealthy and can cause potentially serious physical ailments – not for the person you are angry at, but for you if you have held this emotion in too long. The adrenal gland, designed to provide us instant energy under “fight or flight” situations, continues to flood your body with hormones when you hold onto your anger. Through time, it results in loss of energy and fatigue. Ask me. I know about this one.

A good strategy for using this time beneficially is to allow yourself to enter a time for downshifting from your driven lifestyle. Caution, thoughtfulness, and patience will help you accomplish any necessary activities. Delay the start of any new projects into February, making use of the intervening time for planning.

Then, consider any stored resentments or past angers with the idea that forgiveness and letting go is in your best interests. Revisit old friends or networks that may have fallen away due to petty disputes. You may be able to reduce the emotional charge that was left inside you, even if you discover nothing in common anymore.

If you feel your temperature rise or find yourself blocked and frustrated, don’t force matters. Defuse, relax and ponder whether what you are fired up about is really worth the energy. It just might not be the time to act.

When February rolls around, it will be the time for launching new initiatives, but not now. Join me in recognizing the gift of Mars retrograde – a time to downshift your energy and clear up the damage from the angry past, a time for anger management and resolution.A Quote of Note
“Anger is a normal emotion if it is expressed when felt. Then it is over with. If one keeps a lid on it, it develops into resentment or hate. Sooner or later, resentment and hate explode, destroying others, or they are held in, destroying oneself.”
—Bernie Siegel, Love, Medicine & Miracles